Majority of violent, unhappy youths are fatherless

Posted on March 29, 2018 by monogamist

‘Epidemic of Fatherlessness’

Young men, who grow up in homes without a father are at a distinct disadvantage.

• 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes – 5 times the average. (US Dept. Of Health/Census)
• 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
• 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
• 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes – 14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
• 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
• 43% of US children live without their father [US Department of Census]

The majority of school shootings are perpetrated by individuals from fatherless homes.

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The fabled protestant work ethic that brings peace prosperity and power wherever it goes

Posted on March 24, 2018 by monogamist

It’s not “racism”, it’s the fabled protestant work ethic, combined with 2 adult nuclear parents, children growing up with a nurturing nuclear father, love, forgiveness and personal responsibility and never ever blame others for self created problems

The school to prison pipeline is being fueled by…………….

Posted on March 8, 2018 by monogamist

The school to prison pipeline is being fueled by the second worst fathering on the planet, NOT by teachers, police, the list goes on and on….

Time for fathers to nuclear up and take responsibility

Sounds all cozy and cute, but almost guaranteed will end poorly

Posted on March 7, 2018 by monogamist

One man (surprise, surprise, not two women) and two women in a ‘throuple’ gave a glimpse inside their polyamorous relationship, from how they raise children together to a candid description of their sleeping arrangements.

The three all have feelings for one another, and explained how they have each come to bond with the two other partners to form a ‘throuple’

Sounds all cozy and cute, but in reality brings immaturity, instability and hypersexualization. Almost guaranteed will end poorly, especially for the children

Mature, adult nuclear relationships that result in high functioning children needed.

24/7 sex is not what will result in high functioning young adults

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5450551/Man-two-women-polyamorous-relationship.html

Step one: Ban all forms of polygamy/tribalistic polygyny – legalize the powerhouse nuclear fathering of monogamy Step two: : Revolving term limits for every single judicial legislative educational political government office no permanent elites anywhere in government. Step three: Stop all population movement worldwide. Population movement accelerates all the problems which keep both in and out societies from taking responsibility for themselves, the fuel for fatherlessness, addiction, poverty and violence. Step four: Free family planning for every person on earth. A world of wanted planned children will be a world of far less violence, addiction and poverty.

At least 1,500,000,000 plus believe in various forms of polygamy Of those there are at least 1,000,000 polygamous unions equals 1,000,000 ruling class males plus up to 4,000,000 wives (or more) equals up to 3,000,000 (or more) excess throwaway low status young males that must be expelled from their homes in their most critical years on the path to responsible, high functioning adulthood More or less THREE MILLION THROWAWAY MALES without women, without sex, without nurturing fathering, without nuclear families. FODDER FOR VIOLENCE AND INSTABILITY.

Fatherlessness is the incubator of poverty addiction violence and instability

Although the details are murky and lost in time, most of the ancient tribes practiced polygyny in various forms for thousands of years.

What is fairly possible is that the tribes who practiced polygyny, thus miring themselves in sexual violence, the endless expelling of low status beta young males, rotting of the gene pool, sloth, and the increasing need for rigid control over the young girls.

As monogamy and with it alpha fathering spread across the Western world, it brought with it diligence, self discipline, life long commitment to children, and attention to something besides sex.

The evidence is murky, but the case can be made that as monogamy spread across the world, slavery disappeared in 100 to 400 years.

Indeed, the entire polygamous world was engaged in various forms of slavery, and some of the polygamous world is still engaged in slavery in the 21st Century!

Did monogamy help end slavery?

There are mountains of evidence that support this.

There are a lot of arguments against polygamy from a spiritual, moral and philosophical perspective. But is there also solid scientific evidence that polygamy is bad for the species?
There’s no question that over the past tens of thousands of years of human history, polygamy has left a mark on the human genome that may indicate that small numbers of males must have mated with large numbers of females.

Over time, this polygamous pattern will spawn more genetic differences on the X chromosome than it will on all of the other human chromosomes. That’s because women naturally have two copies of the X chromosome while men have only on X chromosome and one Y chromosome.
To put it another way, diversity arises because some men don’t get to pass on their genes while most women do.
Evidence of Polygamy in Human DNA
The evidence of polygamy among early humans can still be seen in our genes.
“Humans are considered to be mildly polygynous and we descent from primates that are polygynous,” Hammer said.
The term “polygyny” refers to the practice of males mating with multiple females. Among humans, it’s takes the form of polygamy or multiple marriages.

Even if people in the West don’t take multiple wives at the same time, men tend to father children with more females than females do with males. This is a practice known in the scientific community as “effective polygamy”.
But is it good for the gene pool?

Polygamy Is Bad for Genetics and Society
But is it good for the gene pool? Perhaps not.
Not only is polygamy eroding the human DNA genome, it’s rotting away our culture as well.
Polygamy tends to create a multi-tiered society: Those men with power and money can take multiple wives. This puts them into a higher social class while men who can’t afford multiple wives – or even one wife – are assigned a lower social value.
When men don’t feel valued by society, inevitably this leads to an increase in risk-taking, resulting in even more socially undesirable behaviors, as well as the consequent increased cost of additional policing, private security, and government-sponsored national defense expenses.
Faced with the prospect of high competition with other males for the attention of fewer females and with little chance of obtaining even a single wife, men without mate can feel as if they have little to live for, which quickly leads to an erosion of personal values.
The resulting breakdown in societal order could be catastrophic and can include such direct consequences as a higher murder rate, an increase in violent crime, higher incidences of rape and kidnapping of women, prostitution, human trafficking, and property crimes.
Drug and alcohol abuse is also more prevalent among single, unmarried men – especially those with no hope of finding marriage anytime in the future – which further accelerates the breakdown of social order.
The bottom line is that polygamy is not only bad for human genetics, but human society as well.

In 3 studies of death row inmates of ALL colors in America, most were found to have had a troubled childhood. Most of them had been repeatedly beaten by their fathers, their stepfathers or by their mothers’ boyfriends. Most of them had been raised in homes or inner city neighborhoods where the illegal use of drugs was a matter of course. Most of them had been exposed to sexual violence from infancy on up The tragic quest for a nurturing father figure leads vacant eyed "lost boys" to soulless depravities of organized gangs, terrorism, and mindless violence. Most street violence has been found to be done by young black men without father figures. Nationwide, only 17 percent of African-American children reach the age of 17 in a family with their married biological parents. Studies show that more than 19 million children of all races across the country, 26 percent are living without a father figure in the home. In Baltimore, among African-American children, the rate is 69 percent. More proof that fathers are the problem, fathers and father figures are the solution